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"Let nothing perturb you, nothing frighten you. All things pass. God does not change.
Patience achieves everything".
-Saint Teresa of Avila
As women, we can so easily let the outside world influence how we feel—about our lives, our choices, and our bodies. Sometimes, it’s subtle, like a well-meaning friend saying, “Just relax, and it’ll happen!” Other times, it’s more direct, like the doctor who immediately suggests birth control to “regulate” your cycle without investigating why it’s irregular in the first place. No matter where it comes from, these voices can be loud, overwhelming, and deeply unsettling.
This is especially true when it comes to fertility. The world has a lot to say about what women should and shouldn’t do with their reproductive health.
On one hand, we are told to avoid pregnancy at all costs—that it will ruin our careers, our bodies, or our independence. On the other hand, when we do desire children, we’re often pressured with “When are you having kids?” or “You better not wait too long!” It feels as though, no matter what stage of life we’re in, there is always an expectation placed upon us.
But fertility is not just about expectations—it’s about the deeply personal and biological reality of a woman’s body. This is where the Creighton Model FertilityCare System changes the conversation. Instead of treating fertility as something to be controlled, feared, or forced, the Creighton Model empowers women with knowledge about their cycles, helping them understand their health and make informed decisions—whether they are trying to conceive, avoid pregnancy naturally, or address cycle concerns.
The Pressure to “Fix” Infertility
For those struggling with infertility, the pressure can feel even more intense. Society often presents IVF as the only answer, as if success is measured purely by achieving pregnancy, regardless of the health risks or ethical concerns involved. But what if we looked at fertility struggles not as a failure, but as a sign that something in the body needs healing?
Truly, NaProTechnology provides an alternative approach. Instead of bypassing the body’s natural processes, NaPro seeks to uncover and treat the root causes of infertility—whether it’s hormone imbalances, PCOS, endometriosis, or other underlying health conditions. It works with a woman’s cycle rather than against it, giving her real answers instead of just a “quick fix.”
How to Protect Your Peace in a World Full of Opinions
When the world is constantly telling you what you should or shouldn’t do with your body, how do you protect your peace? Here are a few ways to help you stay grounded:
1. Know Your Own Truth – This is such a cheesey thing to say and actually makes my eyes roll when I hear people use this phrase...BUT. Your fertility is unique to you. Whether you are single, trying to conceive, struggling with infertility, or avoiding pregnancy, your journey is yours alone. You don’t owe an explanation of your journey to anyone!
2. Turn Down the Noise – If social media, well-meaning family members, or societal pressures are making you anxious, it’s okay to step away. Set boundaries around conversations and situations you are more comfortable with.
3. Educate Yourself – The more you understand your body, the more confident you’ll feel in your decisions. Using a method like the Creighton Model helps women take ownership of their fertility and recognize potential health concerns early.
4. Lean Into Faith and Prayer – St. Teresa of Avila’s words remind us that God does not change and that patience will bring clarity. Whether through prayer, journaling, or scripture, talking to someone you trust, let your faith be your foundation.
5. Find a Supportive Community – Surround yourself with people who uplift you and respect your journey, whether it’s a faith-based women’s group, a fertility support group, a NaPro-trained medical professional, or your FertilityCare Practitioner.
Your fertility is not a problem to be solved, a burden to bear, or a source of shame.
It is a gift—one that deserves to be understood, nurtured, and protected.
No matter where you are on this journey, remember this:
• You are more than your ability to conceive.
• You are not broken.
• Your worth is not defined by the expectations of others.
Take a deep breath. Guard your peace fiercely. Trust in God's plan.
Trust that your journey—whatever it looks like—is unfolding exactly as it should.
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